Beloved, no longer be overly-concerned with what other people may or may not make of you. What is so all-important about what anyone thinks that makes you feel disheveled with yourself no matter how unkind and unjustified another’s random thoughts may be? You alone are responsible for the thoughts you think – no matter how unkind another’s thoughts may be and no matter how isolated you may feel. Rather than to keep processing another’s thoughts, do whatever you have to do to remove such thoughts from preoccupying you..
Develop a thick skin then. Be scorned then, and be done with it.
What another fellow-traveler thinks of you is his business. No one outside you is to be the be-all and end-all of you. Nor is what you make of another their doing or concern.
Sooner or later, you have to get off your high horse. You don’t have…
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